Shu singing teacher:
Hello!
I am 29 years old, just married. Married a few months before he and I always fight, and yet could not bear to break up with him, after all we have to get along one years. Because each other, older, and pressure, 3 months ago, we licensing of marriage. married life is not easy to imagine the sweet, still some fight (probably are some within our character, lack of humor, right). I always hope that man self-confident, bold and strong sense of responsibility can be several months before marriage problems facing the realities of life when I felt he did not have these, but he is also quite good, so I Henbuxiaxin break up. married two general argument, and sometimes I console myself, as long as he can carefully thoughtful points on the line, but he just happens to careless comparison. We also have communication, pleasant personality and sometimes hard to change ways of thinking. Now the marriage feels like chicken ribs, their Some numbness, later on in life seems no hope.
Shu singing teacher, is not my fault, not his wish to choose the type of people are married? I am very confused also very worried,Discount UGG boots, how can I do? is the attitude adjustment to continue to live with him, or re-choose? know you are very busy, I still try and look forward to hearing from you, I lost hope for your help very much.
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Hello!
Obviously your marriage is under pressure and age, contributed to, and not willingly spend with the combination of a person. with so much hesitation and concerns can be fun you?
to see is our dissatisfaction comes from what? is their grievances, or to the people's discontent? If is the people's dissatisfaction,Bailey UGG boots, so why force myself to get married? why not Let your joy to set foot on the marriage hall? Therefore, I suspect a lot of people is a reflection of the discontent of others is not satisfied with their own. because when a person when their own satisfaction, to rarely see other people's faults . The so-called learning to see the strengths of others can do is not talk about, but in my heart full of joy when they could produce.
Now that you have selected a wedding,UGG shoes, do not appear to be so helpless,UGG boots, as if someone pushed like for you to go. These reactions are responsible for their own, but also a denial of their choice. In this case, we must ask ourselves, in the end I have the ability to choose? I was cheating yourself? I have no responsibility for their own ability to do?
If you truly understand their own choice rather than being pushed by the results, you can make all their undertakings. and then quietly told said to myself, I take my choice. No matter what the results are the result of my own choice. So, who do not blame me!
With this solid foundation, it was always a person to learn for myself responsibility is the beginning of the beginning of freedom. Freedom means that I have the ability to choose and can afford such a choice! but when we do not want to push the outside world, when the result is a kind of reluctant to assume the performance. a For example, there was a man on a girl that I marry you. and then two days later, another about face. then reasoned to myself that I like nonsense this man, you too serious, and always put too much when I say back thing! this quibble is irresponsible to others of their own. so people no longer trust. because he did not trust himself never had their own!
So, whenever we do something, the best asked to rub his chest clearly do. The result is no one can grasp, good or bad to be borne! immature people only willing to take a good, being unwilling to take the bad.
back so far as to seriously face their own marriage, more importantly, in the face of their own. When your heart is happy most of the time, you no longer look forward to grab from others happy. In this case you has a capacity that is driving people like you happy!
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too hasty, after all, the combination of you, so take some time to run. you both must now face the question, we must learn to take responsibility.
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